Everyone has their own belief system about themselves and other aspects of life. These belief systems, known as schemas, develop during childhood. Schemas help you understand yourself and your environment — but they may be challenging when they’re maladaptive.
These unhelpful schemas may not be realistic or accurate, resulting in anxiety or other mental health challenges.
Schema-focused therapy (SFT) offers a way to identify and change these thoughts and beliefs. Below, we’ll help you better understand schemas, schema therapy, and its benefits.
Schema therapy is a form of talk therapy that focuses on schemas and focuses on schemas and addressing the maladaptive coping styles people develop as a result of their schemas.
Before we can truly understand how schema therapy works, let’s look at what schemas are and explore how schema therapy started.
Schemas are frameworks we use to make sense of ourselves and the world around us. Early maladaptive schemas may cause unhelpful or even harmful coping styles to develop. This, in turn, may lead to mental health struggles later on.
For example, let’s say you have a schema or belief that you can’t trust anyone. To cope with this, you avoid getting close to other people. This coping style may cause you to struggle with anxiety, depression, or forming relationships.
Psychologist Jeffrey Young developed schema-focused therapy during the 1980s and 1990s. It was originally used to treat borderline personality disorder (BPD) and other personality disorders. But it’s now used for a wider range of mental health concerns.
Schema therapy includes concepts from other forms of psychotherapy, such as:
Maladaptive schemas are grouped into domains, which each domain connected to specific emotional needs that are part of childhood development — like the need for connection or autonomy.
SFT focuses on five schema domains:
These schemas can develop when needs for a stable, safe, secure, accepting, and nurturing environment aren’t met in childhood. This could be due to an unstable or abusive home environment, for example.
You might expect people to abandon you, or you might have strong feelings of mistrust toward others. You might struggle with deep-seated shame or feel isolated from other people.
Key schemas include:
Children need to learn to be independent and build self-confidence. When these needs aren’t met, schemas related to performance and autonomy may develop. For example, being raised by overprotective parents may prevent someone from developing independence.
You might not know how to handle difficulties, or you might think you can’t survive without a parent or other loved ones. You might feel like a failure, or you might assume that something catastrophic will happen to you.
Key schemas include:
When children are raised without boundaries or rules, schemas involving a sense of entitlement or poor self-control may develop. In this kind of environment, kids may not learn self-discipline or responsibility.
If you were raised this way, you might feel like you’re superior to other people. Or you might have difficulty controlling your impulses or focusing on long-term goals.
Key schemas include:
Children need to learn to balance concern for others with concern for themselves. Otherwise, they might put too much focus on other people while ignoring or neglecting their own needs and desires.
If you were raised to focus excessively on other people’s responses and feelings, you might sacrifice or minimize your own needs, constantly seek approval from others, or engage in overcompensation.
Key schemas include:
Were you heavily criticized growing up or raised in a strict and demanding environment? This could cause you to develop schemas that involve being overly vigilant or inhibited.
You might suppress your feelings and impulses. Or you might hold yourself to your own strict rules and expectations. This may inhibit your ability to express yourself, build close relationships, feel relaxed, or focus on positive things.
Key schemas include:
While schema therapy uses elements from other types of psychotherapy, it has its own process. The exact techniques and strategies used may vary, but generally follow these phases:
You can’t work on undoing schemas until you know what yours are. The first phase of SFT involves learning to identify your maladaptive schemas.
During this phase, your therapist will help you recognize and understand them. This often involves answering questions about or discussing your experiences and emotions.
To understand your schemas, you need to understand why you have them. Your therapist will help you emotionally and cognitively process experiences that led to their development.
This happens in different ways in SFT. Your therapist might use the “empty chair technique,” where you talk to an empty chair while visualizing yourself speaking to a specific person in your life. They might also use CBT techniques to help you identify maladaptive thought patterns, or work with you to explore childhood experiences under the lens of attachment theory.
When you’ve processed your thoughts and emotions, it’s time to work on replacing them. This helps you change unhelpful thoughts and behaviors to more productive ones.
During this phase, your therapist will help you with one or more of the techniques outlined earlier, including CBT methods like identifying and challenging schemas or practicing mode work to replace maladaptive coping modes with helpful ones.
Unproductive schemas may have a powerful effect on your life, triggering depression, anxiety, or other mental health concerns. Schema therapy is designed to help you challenge these schemas and improve your mental and emotional well-being.
In the following sections, we’ll examine the goals of this type of therapy in greater detail.
You can’t change your past. But you can change unhelpful coping styles you’ve developed over the years. These coping mechanisms can activate schemas, resulting in ongoing mental health struggles.
SFT helps you break this cycle. You learn to recognize maladaptive coping styles and replace them with adaptive ones. Doing so gives you the power to move forward with your life and work on building a fulfilling future.
Maladaptive schemas may leave you with emotional scars that affect your overall well-being. You might struggle with fears of abandonment that prevent you from getting close to people, or maybe you’ve been overly harsh on yourself due to facing hypercriticalness in the past.
Schema-focused therapy helps you heal these emotional wounds. Through various techniques, like role-playing, your therapist helps you process these emotions and experiences.
SFT involves working with different child and parent modes, including the Healthy Adult Mode (HAM) and Vulnerable Child Mode. HAM is the version of yourself that’s resilient, mature, responsible, compassionate, and calm. This mode allows you to nurture and support the Vulnerable Child version of yourself.
Schema therapy helps strengthen HAM. For example, you may learn to acknowledge stressful feelings in an understanding way and remind yourself that things will change for the better.
SFT sets the stage for long-term change. Going through the process of identifying schemas, processing emotions, and changing coping styles is empowering and transforming.
The efforts you make and the knowledge you gain during therapy help promote long-lasting change. You can use what you learn in all areas of your life, allowing you to enjoy enduring personal growth.
How can schema-focused therapy help you? This type of therapy offers some important benefits that can help boost your quality of life:
Keep in mind that SFT is a newer form of therapy, so there isn’t enough evidence yet to determine its effectiveness. However, it’s possible that it may be helpful for some individuals.
What’s most important is the therapeutic relationship. Therapists and clients work collaboratively to address schemas and make adaptive changes. This works better when there’s a strong relationship with a solid foundation of trust and understanding.
With any type of therapy, the more comfortable you feel opening up with your therapist, the more effective it can be. This is why working with a therapist you feel safe and comfortable with is important. If you feel uneasy at any point in the process, know that you have the right to switch to a new provider whenever you’d like.
Schema-focused therapy may be a specialized form of therapy, but it shows promise for treating a wide array of mental health conditions. Understanding the schemas that make up your beliefs can be a valuable way to begin to make positive changes in your life.
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